Marina Wilson
Do you keep investing everything in relationships that give too little back?
Perhaps it is an online relationship into which you have poured your time, emotions and even money, while holding on to the hope that this person is finally “the one.”
Maybe you are putting your life on hold for someone who is married, inconsistent or unwilling to choose you -waiting for the day when everything will change.
Perhaps it is a friend who remains distant, but lets you close whenever your attention, support or generosity benefits them.
Or maybe it is a workplace where you give everything, yet watch other people receive the recognition, opportunities and promotion you keep hoping will eventually come to you.
The circumstances may differ, but the pattern is often the same:
You chase.
You wait.
You prove.
You rescue.
You over give.
And gradually, you become unavailable to yourself.
Does this mean there is something wrong with you?
What appears to be a series of poor choices may be an automatic, deeply learned response connected to love, safety, belonging or being chosen.
Uncertainty can keep you emotionally preoccupied. Occasional closeness can strengthen hope. The more you have invested, the harder it can feel to step away.
Understanding the pattern matters - but understanding it intellectually may not be enough to change the automatic pull.
Hi, I’m Marina Wilson
I help you break the pattern of chasing unavailable relationships and begin choosing the available relationship with yourself first.
Using Advanced Conversational Hypnotherapy and focused one-to-one change work, I help you explore what keeps the pattern alive, change the automatic responses beneath it and rebuild trust in your own needs, perceptions and decisions.
The goal is not to shame you or tell you to “just walk away.”
It is to help choosing yourself feel natural rather than guilty or selfish - and to make space for relationships that can genuinely meet you.
How It Works
Step 1: Apply for your Complimentary Clarity Call
We begin with a private, focused conversation about the pattern you have been experiencing. We explore where you find yourself chasing, waiting, proving, rescuing or overgiving, what it has been costing you, and what you would like to change.
This is also an opportunity to ask questions and discover whether working together is the right fit for you.
Step 2: Your Personalised Advanced Conversational Hypnotherapy Breakthrough
If we both feel this work is right for you, we continue with a personalised Advanced Conversational Hypnotherapy (ACH) session.
Rather than simply telling you to “walk away,” we explore the automatic responses that make unavailable relationships feel so compelling. The work is focused on helping you change the pattern beneath the chasing, rebuild self-trust and make different choices feel more natural.
Step 3: Stop Chasing and Start Choosing Yourself
The aim is to help you recognise unavailability earlier, trust what people’s actions are showing you and interrupt the urge to chase, wait, prove, rescue or overgive.
You can begin setting boundaries without being consumed by guilt, protecting your wellbeing and choosing relationships built on consistency, mutuality and reciprocity.
Stop chasing the unavailable. Start choosing yourself.